Paying Forward The Benefits

Isolation gives rise to many emotions. It is also a time of reflection – on gifts I’ve received from teachers and how I’ve carried those teachings, the shared wisdom, into this time of COVID-19.

The sage Shantideva says that the way to repay the kindness of our teachers is by being patient with others. It is only through the wisdom and patience of others that I’ve learned the larger perspective of this practice. I’m thankful for teachers who taught me to be bigger than I am, often by watching how they put their wisdom and teachings into the daily practice of life. I’m reminded of the moment T’ai Chi Chih became important to me. It was one of those moments where the bigger perspective comes into a manageable gift that changes or solidifies the path. You realize it’s the one you want to take.

I began learning TCC in a community education class. I was intrigued but not taking it too seriously. One evening before class our teacher relayed an incident about driving to class and encountering an angry, raging driver. My anger escalated as I listened. She then exhibited a patience and compassion I couldn’t understand at that time. Her words included concern for this person and his level of anger. That was my turning point. I was so impressed that I committed to earnestly practicing until I personally understood her response. This was practice in action, carrying the benefits of practice into the world.

Reflecting on these gifts immerses me in gratitude. I’m reminded to reach out with patience and compassion to those I don’t agree with. Our community is filled with remarkable teachers sharing their wisdom. As Shantideva states, “By helping others we repay the ones who gave themselves for us… Should beings do great harm to me, I’ll strive to bring them only benefit.” That benefit is paying forward wisdom as a way to honor our teachers.