Meaningful Realization

Conference Reflections

By Lia Ridley

It was a rare privilege to serve as Program Chairperson for the ’95 TCC Teachers’ Conference in Colorado. When Denver area teachers elected to appoint me, I was reluctant, knowing the potential challenges involved. I recalled past program chairs who attempted to satisfy teachers’ varied needs and preferences, keep the schedule on track, make certain teachers are kept interested and as happy as possible.

Each person at the conference needs to be given the opportunity to feel a sense of ownership in decision making, even though the schedule is formulated ahead of time. Compromise and the art of negotiation are two necessary, diplomatic qualifications for this position.

I felt both excitement and apprehension at the prospect of chairing the program. Now, one day following the conference I am overwhelmed by the gratitude felt for the opportunity and for the approval, support and love shown me by the 125 participants. I am fortunate to have witnessed previous program chairs who experimented by scheduling various activities, discovering which segments were useful and well received and which were not. I feel that I had the advantage of teachers’ support from the opening of the conference and have known most of them through the years. A genuine love of people, acceptance of various personalities and a compassionate heart are important characteristics for one who plays the role of chairperson. There is an inherent connectedness between all of us and any differences are superficial considerations. As spiritual beings we are united fundamentally in our core nature.

Following the conference I walked alone and had a meaningful realization. Our duty in life is to be the very best person we can become and the most conscious we can be in every situation and with each interaction. If we can be calmly attentive and meet the moment as capably as we can, creatively positive interactions can be accomplished harmoniously. I now understand that any truly useful result comes through a facilitator who is able to flow openly with arising circumstances.

Finally, I am so pleased and honored to have had the opportunity to communicate with teachers collectively and individually, and to have been touched by their sincere warmth. Thank you all for the fond memories I will carry.